Trevor_Bennett: My niche is a surprising one to me at times. . . I won't be the Life of the Party - I'm not the guy with the funniest jokes, who was the cool kid in school, who every one wants to be. I'm the guy who is so gad damn vulnerable all the time, is super sensitive and wears his heart on his sleeve that even the stoic of men will feel safe to talk about the most difficult things in their lives. I stand fearlessly in the full light of all the mistakes I have made and have yet to make, and say that half the time I'm only doing the best job this imperfect flawed mess of a man can do with what he was given. The rest of the time I'm screwing up. I'm the guy you know will never judge you for anything you have done "wrong", and certainly will celebrate you for all of the good things you are. People feel safe with me.